Little Value In Life 01: Learn How To Win Win
Everyone wants to be a winner, but if you win, is it there someone that have to lose? No matter in games, sports, business, relationships or even arguments, no one wants to be a loser and that is the true fact. But is there an ideal way both sides can win? I believe it is, but do you believe in it?
About twenty years ago, before I was born... There were an special Olympic that held for the disable people. And all the participants were a winner from different category of sports, and they were chosen to participate in this running competition. They nothing different from normal people, just they having thinking disorder, and that is what normal people so called retarded.
Same rule applied to this sport game, winner get the reward and loser get nothing. The game started and all of them run their heart out, and they carried one purpose... To win. But in the middle of the running track, a twelve years old boy fell down, and his leg was injured. he was unable to continue the competition. One of the participants noticed the boy, and he stopped and turn back for the boy. The other participants saw him going back for the boy, all of them went back to help the boy, and they finished the race together. And this is the only Olympic that all of the participants are winners. And those are the people we called them retarded?
They are disable people, but they understood the theory of win win, yet we called them retarded? but do we do that in our Olympic? One of the runner from China fell down in last Olympic, but all of the other participants care about was how to win the race. Try to compare normal and retarded people, we understood the theory but yet we don't do it, what for we been given a normal body and mind?
Wars and conflicts happened because we won't tolerance, when you win, then must be one side have to lose, sometime in the end, both sides might be lose as well. So many people had died and suffered because of win and lose, and this theory can used to apply on every small things that happened in our life, someone have to take the first step to do it and someone have to start it. So why don't we started to win win from this moment?
Friday, March 20, 2009
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